“In my first marriage, neither one of us felt like the marriage should get in the way of our dating,” Union told the comedian. “A part of it was like keeping up with his activities, like, ‘Oh, that’s what you’re doing? You’re going to feel this one.’ And I just felt entitled to it as well.” She continued: “I was paying all the bills. I was working my a** off and I felt like that’s what comes, the spoils of riches," adding, “It was such a stupid relationship that should have never got out of the dating phase.“Union also recalled a friend gifted the actress and her ex-husband a therapy session where the therapist recommended the two separate because they had “nothing in common.” She also added that the therapist said, “The one thing you guys have in common is other people so why don’t you just be with other people?” During the conversation, Shepard also opened up about his past relationship where he noted that he was in an open relationship for nine years and he regrets some of his actions during that time to which Union responded, “I wish I had more guilt for some of that.“Union and Howard tied the knot in 2001 and ultimately split five years later in 2006. The Bring It On star is now happily married to former NBA player Dwyane Wade since 2014. The couple also shares 3-year-old daughter, Kaavia James.